Introducing sex toys into your relationship can seem daunting, but it's a journey worth embarking on. It's a bold step that can significantly enhance your sexual experiences, bring a thrilling new dimension to your bedroom escapades.
The Why's and How's of Sex Toys
Let's start by addressing the elephant in the room - why sex toys?
Sex toys, contrary to some misconceptions, are not about replacing the human touch but rather enhancing it. They can open up new avenues of pleasure, introduce varied sensations and experiences, and help both you and your partner discover new aspects of your mutual desires and sexuality.
But, how do you navigate this conversation with your partner?
Starting the Conversation
Approaching the subject with your partner may feel daunting, but here are some tips to guide you:
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Timing is Everything: Choose a calm and relaxed moment to bring up the topic. Avoid times when either of you is stressed or distracted.
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Create a Safe Environment: The conversation should occur in a comfortable, non-threatening setting where both of you can express your thoughts openly.
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Choose Your Words: Be clear and honest about your reasons for wanting to introduce sex toys. Use phrases like "I thought we could try..." or "What do you think about...?" to make the conversation collaborative.
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Respect Their Feelings: Be sensitive to their reaction. If they seem uncomfortable, reassure them that there's no pressure and that you can revisit the idea another time.
Navigating Initial Discomfort
It's normal to face some discomfort or resistance initially. Here are some pointers:
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Be Patient: Give your partner time to process the information. They may need some time to warm up to the idea.
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Address Concerns: Be open to discussions and ready to address any concerns they might have.
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Establish Boundaries: Make sure you both are on the same page about what's acceptable and what’s not. Respect each other's boundaries at all times.
Choosing and Using the Right Toy
Once your partner is on board, it's time to choose your toy. Choosing the right toy is an adventure in itself. Start with something simple and user-friendly - perhaps a massage candle, a small dildo or vibrator. Here are some examples from our Classic Sex Toys collection.
Research together, read reviews, and select something that both of you are excited to try. Safety is paramount, so ensure you opt for body-safe materials and follow all usage instructions.
Remember, the journey of exploring sex toys is one of shared discovery that aims to enhance pleasure and deepen your bond. So hold on to your adventurous spirit, keep an open mind, and embark on this exciting journey together. Happy exploring!